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Release And Return To Love

January 27, 2021

Great Morning Beautiful Spirits! Happy Happy Happppyyyyyy Wednesday! 😁😁😁✌🏼 ❤️🌟😊

There is something about God’s Timing and Releasing Control! Things I must work on quite often. Real Talk. 💯 I want things when I want them, and that’s that. 🤷🏼Well, not so much. You see God has a strategic plan and that plan doesn’t always line up with “our” plan and, more specifically, our ego. 🤔

I once heard Dr. Wayne W. Dyer say EGO stands for “Edging God Out.” Whew. 😳Our ego can get us in some peculiar situations, make us delay our blessings, and ultimately thwart our trust in Gods timing.

My point today is to demonstrate the importance of #releasing #control of situations and allowing God’s timing to prevail and guide us in every area of our life. Doing so decreases (removes) stress, shifts our perspective, and opens doors that we may not have access to when operating in ego.

I want to encourage you today, in reference to whatever “it” is you’ve been holding on to, to give it to God. Period. Simply #release it and “Return to Love.”

How do we do this? How do we “Return To Love?”

✅ Release control (the power to influence or direct people's behavior or the course of events). 💯 It doesn’t matter what the “it” is, we’ve got to release control of it. It may be your children, your spouse, your job, your bills, your finances, your spiritual walk or a ton of other things. Whatever “it” is, you can’t do it alone.

🌟 Attempting to control the outcome puts internal pressure on you and it also puts pressure on the situation. We all know what happens when there’s pressure, things start to boil over and eventually implode. We don’t want that.

✅ Release the outcome (the way a thing turns out; a consequence). 💯 Many of us have specific outcomes in mind when we start something. We want to drive a certain kind of car, marry a certain type of person, make a certain amount of money and so on...

🌟 In effect, we’ve put a boundary, and thereby a limit, on the outcome; and ultimately (in our minds) a limit on what God can do.

🌟🌟 I remember about two years ago as I created my vision board I heard a message from Abraham through Esther Hicks. Esther mentioned how vision boards basically (paraphrasing) limit what the universe vibrates to us. And in effect puts limits on God (my interpretation). It makes sense. Just think about it... That year, I put one thing message in the center of my board, and asked God and the universe to have His and it’s way. It was one of the most transformative years of my life. 💯

🌟🌟🌟 Limiting God really limits the transformation (evolution and blessings) that take place in our lives. For example, If I say I want to drive a red 2021 Porsche, with tan interior, all the bells and whistles etc... I’m basically telling God what to do. 🤦🏼‍♂️Verses saying, “God I know you are excellent, you said I am excellent because I AM made in your image. Bring to me whatever type of car that will glorify YOU and be an example of what happens when I surrender and release the outcome, to you. Amen.”

💡 That’s an entirely different vibration. It’s more peaceful and harmonious with what Hod has for me. I’m not saying don’t make your requests known to God. Yes, do, please do. But release the outcome. SN: The DADT is God already knows our requests before we even butter a word, before we think the thought. Maybe, just maybe, God has a black 2022 Porsche waiting for me with amenities that aren’t even available yet! Maybe God wants to bless me BEYOND MY IMAGINATION. The only way I/we will experience this is by releasing the outcome and allowing God to be God. 💯

✅ Release coveting (yearning to possess or have something). 💯 Whew! That’s the ego’s biggest struggle. Well, it’s been mine in the past. I can’t speak for everyone. But I know there are things I’ve wanted in the past simply because I’ve seen other people with it. I’ve wanted power or control because I’ve seen other people posses it. I’ve wanted a certain type of relationship because I’ve seen “fairy tale” relationships played out on social media. That’s no way to exist. 🤦🏼‍♂️ That’s certainly not relinquishing control or the outcome to God. Actually it’s quite the contrary. 🤔And, it’s unhealthy, stressful, and the polar opposite of love.

❤️❤️ When we return to Love (remember our divine purpose) we are able to relinquish control, relinquish the outcome, and relinquish coveting of others, resulting in living a healthier, more fulfilling and full life. 💯

❤️🌟 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:1

🌟❤️ This is Love. This is “Returning to Love” and moving away from the ego and control; both of which are rooted in fear (concern that something will harm or demean us).

💡💡💡ACTION 💡💡💡: Today, I challenge you to release control of ONE “IT” you’ve been holding on to. Release the desired outcome. Simply let it go... Search in your heart and identify why control of the outcome is present. Is it rooted in fear or is it rooted in love? Choi’s love every time.

Prayerfully after taking this action our hearts will shift us towards Love allowing the outcome to reflect God’s Will and God’s timing on our life.

I Love ❤️ You. God Loves ❤️ You. I’m praying for you. 😊🙏🏼

#GoBeGreat! ~Dr. Elijah Nicholas 🤗 ❤️😘🌟


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